The logic is made for that. Our inner person is to obey us otherwise we would obey him. Self has different personalities in our mind for decision making and changing attitude. Sometimes we may force to change ourselves and during such occurrence, we have to give up our principles and demands for other%26#039;s satisfaction. For exmaple, if you want to avoid the dinner during the party, just say, my wife / mother is very strict to have her dinner with me and she would be waiting, I shall come at another occasion.
If you are forced to invest some money for future, think, %26quot;the future value of money is always decreasing as the price of commodities are increasing every day. So, If I invest today $10.0, after one year it would fetch 0.5% interest, but the value may come down to 8.5% by next year, so I would loss 1% value of the investment. Why should I invest%26quot; Ask in such a way to yourself so that you can change your attitude to the way you take things.
If you want to relieve from a %26#039;love affairs%26#039;, just imaging the worst ugliest face of your spouse and hate it - so your hate would come out and it would relive you to the way you like.
If you loss $10 in a deal, just imagine, that you had spent about $25 for your lunch and you gained a profit of $15.
I can not change your attitude and you have to try for it since your MIND IS NOT IN YOUR HAND to make use of it to your wishes.|||Read the book. The Four Agreements|||As I understand your question it%26#039;s about your perception of others and the world.
Go by the evidence and don%26#039;t generalise or jump to conclusions.
A really good site that goes into this specifically is Moodgym
http://moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome
Best Wishes.
Mars Mission.
14th Year Psychology Student. (Planet Earth).|||Just start analysis the fact that helps you to change your attitude.
Consult with your friend or family about your behaviour....If You are able to change Your behaviour than automatically attitude also changed.|||Hi, How are you? this is a good question you know. I appreciate your zeal about attitude. I believe it is the core thing of mind. As our body has eyes. Mind has eyes and those eyes are positive attitude and negative attitude. As we see with two eyes, mind also sees with these two eyes. But for mind we have choice we can change it to positive by continuously practicing it. See whatever happens, just take good from it and whatever is bad just understand it. Because, you shouldn%26#039;t do the same to others. If any body does bad to you, and it hurts you then realize that you shouldn%26#039;t do the same to others. Just follow positive eye continuously. After few months your mind will become healthy. After few years your mind become greater healthy. A complete healthy mind makes you completely healthy and divine. You will be happy and peaceful in whatever you have. You will have contentment.|||start writing what attitude you want in your life. hope this will help you.|||Attitude is your way of thinking.You may take the things in a lighter or serious way .Sometimes this type of thinking will result in positive or negative result.The result will enable your thinking to modify or rectify for more positive approach.Thus you can change your attitude.|||You keep getting answers as you grow mature,however,just keep introspecting each day.
