One of the answers given included this statement:
%26quot;People who love themselves allow good things to happen to them and they live in ways where good things can happen to them. People who do not have self love do the opposite. They drive away the good in their lives and engage the bad.%26quot;
Can anyone tell me how one %26quot;allows good things to happen%26quot;?
I assume this means having a positive attitude, but how do you change your perspectives like that, and how does this translate into self-love?Regarding an answer from my previous question about %26quot;loving yourself%26quot;...?self-love is selfishness.
We don't have control over things that %26quot;happen%26quot;.
You can build relationship with those who make it happen, but selfishness is an obstacle for building relationships.
