How do you handle situations when your child's teacher passes "put down" comments to your child?

My son has started second grade and his new teacher, instead of correcting his behaviour problems in a fair manner, says stuff like %26quot;Your attitude stinks%26quot;. Is it a good idea to request for a change of class stating the reason?

Thanks!How do you handle situations when your child's teacher passes %26quot;put down%26quot; comments to your child?If the teacher is really using those words with your son, you need to speak to her immediately. If she doesn't change after that, arrange an appointment with the principal and talk about your concerns.



Also, your son may be internalizing her words to be %26quot;your attitude stinks%26quot; when the teacher is actually using words like %26quot;it sounds like you're having a bad day%26quot; or even %26quot;what can you do to feel better about the situation?%26quot;



Approach it in an investigative and concerned matter rather than demanding a change of class right away and you will get a much better response from the teacher and the school.
How do you handle situations when your child's teacher passes %26quot;put down%26quot; comments to your child?
absolutely! i would definitely request a change of class because of this reason, and furthermore, i would tell the principal or superintendant. i was teased by a teacher once, who told me 'put down' comments, and i'll never forget it. i ended up telling my mom and she told hte principal and the teacher was removed from our school, and i'm really glad. no one deserves to be put down, no matter what they do.
How do you handle situations when your child's teacher passes %26quot;put down%26quot; comments to your child?
I would speak with the teacher (have other people present if you wish) and if nothing comes of it then there is always the school board...or you could request a teacher change.
Talk to the principal, then the principal and teacher and you-- Tell them problem, tell the principal that the teacher is handling this problem badly, and saying put downs to your son and you either want a new class or this problem resolved!



If nothing happens and is not resolved then go to the board of education and the superintendent!



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i say definately speak with the principal about this. there is alot of teachers getting comfortable in being unproffesional(at least here in n.california) and my kids now go to private schools and its alot better. but yes, definately! TAKE ACTION! you dont want to regret it later.better safe than sorry, shannonlee05
Tell the teacher %26quot;your attitude stinks, my son is 6 whats your excuse?%26quot;
ABSOLUTELY! Have you gone to the school board? I mean, this is abuse! Children do not learn by belittling, they learn by encouragement. If your child has a bad attitude, let him/her take it up with the child in a decent manner. If things do not change, then they can take it up with you. Your child will never thrive in this sort of situation. I am terribly sorry to hear of this, unfortunately it happens alot.
Have you spoken to the teacher directly about this? How exactly do you know what the teacher is saying to your child? Is your child telling you this or do you have actual witnesses to this type of comment? I think if you haven't taken the time to speak to the teacher, you may be making assumptions about her that are untrue or are being blown out of proportion. I think you need to find out exactly what problems she is having with your son and the two of you should try to figure out together what to do. Very often children blow things out of proportion to get their way and I would hate for you to give the message to your child that any time there is a problem, you'll step in without investigating and make the problem go away for them. They never learn responsibility for their own behavior when you make it so easy for them to get out of tough situations. Good luck.
sounds to me like you should talk to the administration. these days, they can listen in on the class pretty much all day, and hear for themselves what is going on without alerting the teacher. no teacher should be saying this kind of thing to any kid.

also, try talking to some of the other kids, and getting the story confirmed.

o, and your kid will be hearing that kind of comment all his life from rude people, hopefully not very often. so, while you remove the problem, take the time to teach your kid to deal with this kind of thing. in the long run, it's the best thing you could do.
I would request a meeting with the teacher and the principal and discuss what and how you expect your child to be repermanded.