I really dislike women. How can I change my attitude?

This isn't one of those troll questions like %26quot;why are men more intelligent%26quot; etc etc. It's just that my experience of women is absolutely awful. Women just seem to be really self absorbed,manipulative selfish, self righteous and aggressive. Men just seem to be easier to get on with, calm and logical, they don't focus on their emotions too much. It seems that if a women is on her period she has licence to act like a phyco killer. Most of my friends are male and I have a couple of female friends who I consider to be quite masculine. I don't like the games that women play, I don't like anything about them. Can you recommend anything to change my attitude? Because I know that it's not healthy. Or maybe you agree with me? I would like to know your thoughts.I really dislike women. How can I change my attitude?i agree to a extent, women can be right cows to be fair, hang around with mainly guys, tell you what whenever your around a group of people and theres a women talking just nod like your listening and smile, the important thing is to totally ignore what they say.
I really dislike women. How can I change my attitude?
Listen to what you are saying about our gender! It is tragic...and perhaps you have met some awful people, but to dismiss your sex in this way is terrible. Women can be smart as they can be stupid, they can be kind or cruel, they can be all things, but come on you have met all women?

And so you don't like women who go 'nuts' because of PMS? What excuses do men come up with when they go 'nuts?' What I recommend is open your eyes...and your mind...and I would argue that if you questioned your male friends honestly and frankly most of them will be being nice to you to get in your pants!


I really dislike women. How can I change my attitude?
you have obviously been in contact with the wrong kind of woman, i don't really think you can discriminate between men and women there are good and bad on both sides i have a friend who has constantly been messed about by men playing stupid childish games with her and yes women play games as well i think most women are sensitive to other people's troubles as are some men its a very debatable subject
It is nature. I think we cannot interfere with nature's way of functioning.



We should not jump into conclusions with our narrow human limitations. We should judge everything from universal standards of values and from righteous ideals of an equally universal norms of vision.
Im a women and I hate most women to.



most of them talky talk talk about people, rude and stuck up.





edit- im 16 and im in highschool.
interesting.

they cant all be like that. maybe you need to keep looking. i dont see how you cannot like anything about them, i think they are very cool and some are extremely funny, some a lot funnier than men.



maybe you should try making a few contacts on here, and not tell thm instantly, cause that would be, really self absorbed, manipulative, selfish, self righteous, and not to mention Aggressive.



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I'm like you. I suspect I am a bit older (36) and have learned how to deal with it now...I always thought I had problems because other women did not like me..never wanted to be friends etc....but as I grew older I realised that actually I was sending out pretty strong messages that I did not think like them nor respect them...the female friends I do have (aout 5) are very strong women...all proffesional or highly skilled..non emotional and non bitchy. I could never deal with the way girls would get all emotional if you forgot to call or didn't want to go out etc.
I agree. A lot of women are bitchy towards other women. Men are nicer and less manipulative
I don't get on with women either. I think it was because I was bullied in school so I don't have a positive experience of women. I just find blokes so much easier to get along with, they are uncomplicated and laid back, they say what they mean and don't bother with all these all those mind games. They can take a joke! I hate that most women are over sensitive and such drama queens, I can't be doing with all that. Most of by best friends are guys, I have female friends but I can only handle them in small doses, aside from a few and those girls are right gems, one in a million, seriously. I have a blokes sense of humour, girls just aren't funny! Don't you find that they find the majority of jokes really offensive or they just don't understand the whole concept of wit. I don't know why guys fancy us, seriously it baffles me, I just find it embarrasing how all woman seem to be so bitchy and back stabbing and HORMONAL! It's like PLEASE. Periods aren't actual that much of a big deal! COPE! I hope the men don't think we're all like that! I'm glad to know there are more of you out there :P Lol X
I would have to agree with you on that. In my experience, not all but many women are a bunch of self-absorbed, manipulative, backstabbing, self righteous bitches. They can come up with some of the most convoluted bullshit. Men are easier to get along with, they don't get all emotional and annoying. I know in my case I had a lousy boyfriend at one point and instead of being my true friends they walked around and told people I had sex with him in public and that I was a whore and a horrible person. I only have a few female friends that aren't catty and petty like some of those other ones. But not all women are conniving and bitchy. But yeah men are easier for me to get along with in general.
Oh, so you're a misogynist. Well, I can understand where you're coming from. Women are often very bitchy and love to gossip. Even the bible blames women (Eve and the apple)
I have the exact same problem.

But i think the only reason I dont get along with women is because i am not attracted to them like I am with men.

And i am often jealous of or mad at most women.



But i am sure some guys feel the same way about other guys.
i totally agree with you, the problem is, we are both wrong, because us women should actually stand strong with other women because if you think about it we all should be supporting each other and not bringing each other down with our words, so i encourage you to try to accept your own sex, because a man doesn't know what its like to be a woman. He can be a good friend, but he doesn't really know the sensitivity females go through in certain times in their life. That calls for female attention. So, basically, dont knock it till you try it, trust me girl you just might like it.
Sure know what you mean!



My wife hates women also. I love 'em though.



Although not as often as I used to. lol.....
I feel the same way towards women as well. I feel that they are liars, manipulators, envious, and connivingg. They throw ***** fits whenever they don't get the man they want, a certain outfit, or their way. I am not perfect but I am not categorized or associated with females just as these. I do have female friends but I can count them!!! I have ton and tons of male friends... I still keep in touch with male friends from grade school. I also feel that males are better to have as friends because they are not over analytical, not as judgmental (unless they are the ultra feminine homosexuals - no offense), and yea... they don't base everything on their emotions. I guess we hate women so much because we have had are really bad experiences with them when trying to build friendships with them. For example, I used to have tons of females friends in grade school... by the time 8th grade graduation came I had about like 4 or 5 and only like 3 i seriously keep in contact with. I went to an all girl catholic high school... that was suicide for me... I had befriended like 5 or 6 serious female friends and the rest were acquaintances. Also, by the time i graduated, I only talk to like 2 or 3. Now that I'm in college, I have met a few females who share our same feelings towards females... so I'm cool with them. Yea, so like I said, we have those attitudes towards females becausr of bad experiences and let downs. If you want to change that... just don't trust and open up to every female you meet because at the end of the day you might just end up to be the talk of the town. So... just keep your eyes and ears open because not every females is dirty and 2 faced... there your decent ones. I hope this helped!
i'm a woman and i agree with you...although i have some good female friends...most women are so bloody selfish and manipulative...



i hate what one particular woman has done to my life...she's really messed it up...but i won't name names...

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What approach should i take to change my mothers attitude?

i am 18, a very mature 18. there are times when my mother will come to ME for advice on life. the problem is (and this is mostly my fault) since we come from a very strong and strict Jamaican background, ive been brought up to do what your parents say to do and let then talk to you however they feel but i dear not say anything in your defense. well, in not a little girl anymore and she still feels like she can say anything to me and i should just sit back and agree wth her. last night we got into it and i said %26quot; if i have a point, i feel as if i am entitled to it and should be able to express it.%26quot; she replies saying %26quot; and who are you to be arguing with me?%26quot; it was at that point that i realized that she has no respect for me. if i cant curse at her, why must she feel like its appropriate to curse at me? anyway, my question is, how can i help change her attitude? im tired of her attitude and demeanor and it makes me want to not respect her, but i dont want to take that route.What approach should i take to change my mothers attitude?Actually the culture is the problem and your mother thrive in that ,and she will not budge away from her heritage. You won't get her to see or respect your opinions or thoughts until you don't have to be accountable for them outside the home. I gather you live at home on her turf, and she is playing the upper hand of under my roof do what I say. I am not sure where (country) you live, and whether you can move out on your own. I am afraid she won't budge on her stubbornness and disrespect for you until you live at different addresses. Face it, she's wrong, and you won't accomplish anything but more tension and cursing. Don't have those chats with her, and do what you feel you should. She will do what she wants to do anyway. Someday you will move out and have more to stand on as you won't have to face her unless you choose to visit. She will learn the way of hard knocks by not having you over as much. (who wants to be treated like a child?)
What approach should i take to change my mothers attitude?
It sounds like you are. You need to earn respect and by showing your mother that you are hardworking, honest, respectful and have self control, she will slowly change her ways. If you talk to her, it may work, If you let her know that it hurts you when she says those things she may listen. You need to do that when you are not heated. You have a valid point. It may just be a few years before it can make it to your mother.
What approach should i take to change my mothers attitude?
First of all, nobody should be cursing at anyone. Besides showing a lack of respect, it's not productive.



Wait until your mother is in a calm mood. Sit down with her and explain that you'd like to lay some groundwork for dealing with conflict. Then try to get her to agree to a structure. For instance, the person who is upset could say, without interruption, what is upsetting them. Then the other person could voice again what they said, to be sure it was clear; then answer. You could agree that noone curses and noone raises their voice. You could also agree that if the discussion is not going according to these rules, it will end for 20 minutes, and then you'll try again. Whatever structure you think will help. Each person should ALWAYS have to voice back what they've heard, to make sure each truly listens to the other.



Even if your Mom is game to try this, it will take several tries before it starts to take shape. When people are upset, it's hard to stop and follow the rules. But, if you can get in the habit of controlling how you deal with each other, you could come up with some more appropriate solutions.



Good luck.
My mother does the same crap to me and I'm 27. I've learned that I could be 50 and she will still think of me as a little girl and nothing I say really matters because she is always right. And that seems odd because she's asking you for advice but if shes like my mom then she just wants to hear herself b****. I've learned that I can't really do anything to change her but I did finally tell her I wasn't her psychologist and since she wasn't going to take any of my advice she needed to stop dumping on me. Of course she didn't listen to that either but now when she starts doing it i either change the subject completely or make an excuse to hang up the phone or leave the room. I really feel for you, good luck.

How Can i change my attitude?

i will admit it, i can be such a d*** to people. Especially to my parents and i feel really bad later on so i want to change my attitude. Like my tone when my parents sometimes ask me something, the way i reply back sometimes. For example ''do you like that jumper'' and i might reply (in the tone of ''what do you want now!?!?'' Or ''Just leave me alone''.) in that tone saying ''What''. if that makes sense.

And guys don't say that i am spoiled because i don't think i am. stick to the question please.



Thanks Everyone i really appreciate your help in advance.How Can i change my attitude?1. Many times I have come across some event and certain people that can cause me to feel a change of my attitude. The emotions start to churn in my head and stomach not knowing where they come from. Then I realize, Hey they/it is making me feel this way.

Stop and realize who is in charge here. By them/it causing you to change the way you feel they are controlling your life. Okay, who is in charge of your life, it is you, and they/it are affecting it. Tell yourself to take charge of your emotions and not let them/it change your attitude.



2. Realize that this event/person is overriding your attitude, causing you to get mad, upset, anxious, frustrated and all those other weird feelings that you do not like.

Stop, take a few deep breaths, analyze the situation and tell yourself , all things are temporary and things will pass. Tell yourself that you will not let exterior circumstances or other people control your attitude.



3. Remember YOU are in charge of your attitude, not others. Are you a puppet to their manipulation, can you look beyond the present into the future. Do you have underlying circumstances that cause this....if so fix them. Are you feeling guilty of something...if so go get rid of that guilty feeling. Right a wrong. Are you jealous, shake that off and become yourself.

You are yourself, be yourself. Do not let the environment control your attitude. Take charge, stand up TO yourself. Become free.
How Can i change my attitude?
Smack the piss out of people who dont like your guts

What can i do to change my mothers attitude?

i am 18, a very mature 18. there are times when my mother will come to ME for advice on life. the problem is (and this is mostly my fault) since we come from a very strong and strict Jamaican background, ive been brought up to do what your parents say to do and let then talk to you however they feel but you dear not say anything in your defense. well, in not a little girl anymore and she still feels like she can say anything to me and i jusst sit back and agree wth her. lat night we got in and i said %26quot; if i have a point, i feel as if i am entitled to it and should be able to express it.%26quot; she repliessaying %26quot; and who are you to be arguing with me.%26quot; it was at that point that i realized that she has no respect for me. if i cant curse at her, why must she feel like its appropriate to curse at me? anyway, my question is, how can i help change her attitude? tired of her attitude and demeanor and it makes me want to not respect her, but i dont want to take that route.What can i do to change my mothers attitude?It's a bit of a cliche, but while you're living in her house and she's paying the bills etc. just nod, agree and be respectful. I'm sure if in 40 years time, she moves into *your* house, you'll be calling the shots. If you can't put up with it, move out. As you say, you're not a little girl anymore.
What can i do to change my mothers attitude?
your mother seem to be quite arrogant



you may not like this idea but if I were you I would type everything i wanted to say to her out very nicely not forgetting to make her understand my feelings and her attitudem print it

and give it to her.
What can i do to change my mothers attitude?
always be respectful to your mother if she takes care of you (puts a roof over your head, makes sacrifices so that you can have things) for the simple fact that mothers give so much of themselves to their children. (I'm not even a mother). I am 21 and when I look back to my teenage years, I wanted to argue with her and do things my way ... later on I realized how easier things would have been for me if I would just have taken her advice.



Talk to a friend if you are upset or respectfully come to your parent without an agressive overtone, and that may help.
Sometimes the smallest changes are the most difficult to make. Understanding that basically all you want is for her to recognize you as an adult, that is still much to ask for.



Consider two things for a moment;



1.) You said you have a deep rooted Jamaican background. That background didn't start with you, your mother was raised that way, her mother, etc.... For your mom this is how she has been taught to act, for several decades now. %26quot;Getting with the times,%26quot; is something that she will struggle with for the rest of her life.



2.) She is your mom, and therefore, to her at least, you will ALWAYS be the child. Granted there will be times she asks you for advice but there will always be times where she will look at you and KNOW that you are doing %26quot;it%26quot; wrong. She may of may not be right in those instances but that is one of the many joys of the parent/child relationship.



Bare with her. She loves you she is just old fashioned. While the thing you want is a very small request it would require a huge change in her core mind set. It's not impossible to achieve this, but very difficult to do. Let her know how it feels when she belittles you, and expect a long process of making this change happen.



It may never come to pass, but regardless love your mother, she's the only one you get!
I am going through the same thing you are mom's just dont get us some time if you want my email here it is kimberlyn_pool_2009@yahoo.com and i am not playing iam going through the same thing you are.

Please help me to change my attitude?

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I was a horny boy from my childhood.I even raped a classmate at my second standard

But at at 30 th yr of living my mind becomes a kind of no whenever a gal is trying to have seduce me for sex

I don't know yaar what is the reason for that attitude

I respect girls but I becomes you know I become totally blank as somebody is telling me %26quot;No No%26quot;

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How can I change my attitude and style?

I just moved to a different state, and apparently people in a small town in South Carolina as they do in Manhattan, or act the same. Here it's cool to be a prep and all, but in a privet school in NY it seemed everyone was all strict and harsh, I think it might be the change from privet to public school. Most girls were tons of eyeliner and mascara, and have there hair dyed, I don't want to go to that extent, like dying my hair and wearing tons of make-up, but I really need help. Also with cloths.Here are some things that might help with your answers:

Light brown hair with natural blonde highlights

Blueish grey, greenish eyes(sometimes they look different colors, mostly blueish grey).

I have light/tan skin- French, Welsh, Gypsy decent

I'm 13

I have big eyes, but average set.

I have a high forehead

I have a Roman Nose

I'm 5 ft. 3inches

I am very thin(80 pounds)

I have long fingers, legs and hands

I tent to be slightly pessimistic and down in the dumps

Please reply quick with ideas for hair and make-up along with how I can change my attitude to be more like my peers.How can I change my attitude and style?go rocker :).

oh, and seriously do the heavy make up thingg k [:
How can I change my attitude and style?
%26quot;How I can change my attitude to be more like my peers%26quot;?? don't change who you are just so others will like you.
How can I change my attitude and style?
Your best response would to get involved in various clubs or activities in your community maybe even a religious group. These sort of organizations are a great way to meet new friends and feel great especially if you get into something you like.

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