Sunday 5 June 2011

How do you change one's impression on you?

I have two cases.


Case 1: You newly met someone, and you were pretty awkward and shy around him/her. Now he/she gets that first impression, but in reality, you were just sleepy and that is why that happened. You really are an outgoing person. How do you let the other person know that?





Case 2: You%26#039;ve been hanging out with someone for a year already, and for that year you were a loser and a brat. Suddenly, you want to change your attitude, and slowly you did. In that person%26#039;s mind though, it is set that you are a loser and a brat and there is no more space in his mind for your real attitude now. Whenever he/she sees you, he sees a loser and a brat. How do you change the way he/she sees you, so that you can get a true friend in him/her?|||actually there are different ways to change one%26#039;s impression on you since we all are different persons and we all have different attitudes.. but one thing is for sure.. try to prove to that person that you really are not what he/she thinks.. of course, this would involve doing things to make that person know who you really are..





* as they say : %26quot;to achieve something you%26#039;ve never had.. you must do something you%26#039;ve never done before..%26quot;





so dude.. take that extra mile.. and take away that negative impression they had of you.|||Just act how you want them to see you as.|||actions speak louder than words. just time should proove it. be steady in your actions, and he/she should notice that.





if not screw them!|||You can never change a first impression. You can only hope that if it was the wrong one that you%26#039;ll have the opportunity to change the other person%26#039;s mind. Or to run them over with your car if the opportunity arises. Whatever works for you.|||You shouldn%26#039;t be concentrating on what you can do to change other people%26#039;s impressions of you. You should be working on being the best person you can be to yourself and to others. If you become that then they will notice without any effort from you.|||Don%26#039;t act a part, be it!|||Just be yourself, if he doesn%26#039;t appreciate you some other person will.