you know when you'v had an 'odd moment' with your partner, say a minor disagreement..because one was being more pedantic than the other about something. Especially over a phone call?...would you bother bringing it up the next time you met?..just to 'make sure they didn't take offence, because you noticed there attitude changed over your comment'?, or would you forget it %26amp; carry on like normal. Simply continue to show it didn't matter? - I always have a hard time trusting that the other person is Ok, and not secretly resenting me..maybe its because I am guilty of this myself before?..how do I stop my behaviour :PWhen is it/what is appropriate to bring 'things up'?Just wait till a quiet timeWhen is it/what is appropriate to bring 'things up'?well i was the one to always call/text/ whatever my friend %26amp; i got tired of it after a couple of months so after one of his drunken escapades i texted him %26amp; said maybe we shouldn't be friends anymore. he got all fussed up about it %26amp; he wanted to fix things %26amp; everything %26amp; so he came over %26amp; now we're friends again.
point being, if there's something bothering you, bring it up. don't wait awhile. just say i know this might be a tad bit awkward but i wanted to get your stand on this. la la la. you can't really stop it either. it kinda just happens. but since i didn't let it carry on, he actually makes an effort to do talk to me first once in awhile.When is it/what is appropriate to bring 'things up'?IF it warrants it, bring it up sooner rather than later just to make sure everybodies okay. Start with an apology if necessary.As soon as possible the next time you talk... Though try and find a quiet place! (Oh, and chocolates help.)ahh i wish all guys are like u.
wen i wanna talk, they say there are busy. *sighs*
i dunno what to do anymore tbh
i say go for it! it wont hurt and it will only jusy clear the air around u two.
