Am I wrong or does he need to decide?

The guy I'm seeing said this to me today, %26quot;If you change your attitude, you could get married sooner then you think.%26quot;



I'm not sure if it's because of our age difference or what but I guess he wants me to act a certain way. He constantly says I have an attitude with him and I'm always moody. As far as I'm concerned I am too nice to him; I'm just not a push over and I speak my mind when something is bothering me.



He's always talking about how he doesn't have a social life and how nobody wants him. I've been seeing him for almost a year and he knows how I feel about him but he also knows I'm not going to wait or settle for less. I told him if he can't make up his mind about what he wants.....when I go off to school it's over. Am I wrong or does he need to get his act together. Am I wrong or does he need to decide?I will say he should love you the way you are, and second the age difence may be the problem for him, he can't hundle you the energy that you have he does not have it, remember school is mouch more important for you're future girl that's what you need to fight for good luck.
Am I wrong or does he need to decide?
You two are like oil and water. This won't get any better with time, believe me. Pack your comforter and head off to school with a promise to IM him from time to time....
Am I wrong or does he need to decide?
Sounds like both of you need to get your act together!
You probably both need to get your acts together and change your attitudes. How old are you? Probably too young to think of getting married now. You should just go to school and live your life... if he wants you, he'll come around.
Oh boy taint.....



What exactly are you looking for?



You looking to marry this chump?



Anyhow.....marriage is a bad idea to begin with...but imagine being married to him....



Ok are you happy about it?



Second....what is dude trying to guilt trip you talking about nobody wants him....waaaaah



you sure know how to pick em.
Girl he needs to get his act together, dont settle for less. U deserve to be happy! He needs to make a choice if he wants to be with you...If he doesnt like your attitude then he doesnt like you..He cant change you, you are you..and keep being you
You know you don't have to wait for him to decide right? Sounds to me like you guys are trying to put each other into a little box. Not gonna work. If your going off to school then clear your slate. You won't want that drama in your life cuz your life is about to get much more interesting at school. Too young to get locked in anyway.
It sounds like you may be younger then him but you are way more mature then he is..women can sometimes be emotional..or sensitive...and if you speak your mind..then that's not a bad thing..he probably doesn't like that you are confident and stand up for your self and / or beliefs. SO yes..he needs to get his act together..
go ahead.... change your attitude.... and dump the bum.
Sounds like a plain old case of incompatibility to me. If he feels you need to be different to make things work, then you're not compatible. He should love you the way you are.
I'd give up girlfriend. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Make a better choice, one ur own age maybe. Men r egotistical and love 2 cause problems. Like this bumper sticker says: if it has tires or testicles it's gonna give u problems. Stick with that and u'll be safe.