Are they jealous or just mean?

Hello there, I'm a quiet girl who always had good relationships with my girlfriends but lately I've been getting not so good behaviours by some of them, ie:



I was with a girlfriend sitting in a bar and a guy just came to me and said- Oh, just wanted to say you're beautiful. My friend, instead of smiling or being normal, she started laughing. I was like, wtf? I wouldn't laugh if some other guy gave a compliment to one of my friends, I would smile and make her feel good..



Then, on a night out, I was with this other girlfriend, and this guy started talking to me, when we were sitting togehter, and he said to my girlfriend, -Oh, but your friend is beautiful, isn't she, and she said: Yeah right!! Instead of agreeing or at least being quiet.



I later confronted her and asked her why she had to say that and she said: Oh.. I said it because if this guys tells me you're a beautiful and to me says nothing, is as if he's telling me I'm not good enough.



I don't think is correct, is a bitchy attidude and I wouldn't like this attitudes in friends.

And those are they things that I'm beginning to think that they are double- intentioned with the things they do.





Honestly, the worst thing is that these friends have been my friends for years and is not a question of looking for another friends now..



How would you feel? Because I don't feel like going out anymore with them anymore, it looks like a competition, I'm not that type of person..



What would you do in my situation, would you just start looking for another friends, or change your attitude? Because I'm not the confronting type of person, I rather ignore it..



Take care and thanks for reading..Are they jealous or just mean?From what your friend said to you when you confronted her, Sounds to me shes just jealous that the guy didnt compliment her but he complimented u. And if you were friends for that long she should not be acting like that. Id say maybe talk to her abt it again, and either try to work it out or find friends that Will actually be supportive of you. and maybe she`ll come to realize what a jerk shes been to you.
Are they jealous or just mean?
if it wa me, den i would just change my attitude by ignoring dem n showing THEM their attitude n luking for other GOOD frndz.

im a person like u too bt wen someone does dis 2 me, den i would straightly take revenge!

gud luck :)
Are they jealous or just mean?
That's what I would do leave them home.
Your choice is do you hang around these two faced, mean. jealous friends or risk the chance of being labelled by these same people as pompous or snobby. This always happens in our desire to have friends and be seen as popular and sociable, the down side is there's a lot of falseness and superficiality around and if you happen to stand out a bit, you're going to get negativity from some of these friends. All I can say is pick your friends carefully, but be friendly to all.
revenge would just make it worse.



i have had a lot of problems with bitchy girls too. and in my experience i find that that the problem stems from somewhere else. Like maybe something you said and at the time it didnt seem like a big deal but over time it has gotten to them, or maybe this things with men telling you how beautiful you are has been happening for a long time and you just havent realized how much it effects them. if i were you, i would go to these girls and ask whats up. if you are nice and talk to them calmly, and even apologize I think, if they are reasonable girls, they will also apologize and get over whatever is bothering them.
You have to think about when it will get worse than it is now ..will they also get jealous of your economic standing ,your husband in later years ... your kids when they grow up . My sister was like them and later stole all of her siblings inheritances ...
She is jealous because you are getting attention %26amp; compliments from guys. Trust me, cos as i teen i was 'the less pretty friend' %26amp; quite often had to hear men tell me how beautiful my friend was %26amp; it did get on my nerves, but i'd never have spoken out against her because she was my friend. Still made me feel lousy though.
i would change friends!

and even if their jealous they need to handle it!

but they CANT!!

and in the future it might get worse!

if it'll happen again tell them to stop being jealous !!!

coz its a d@m feeling!

AND they need to higher their self esteem!....