Saturday 24 September 2011

How do you change for someone your in love with?

the guy im in love with wants me to change so we can be together.he wants me to change my attitude of how i go off on people, my smart mouth and how i hide my feelings and emotions. but im this way because of stuff that has happened to me in the past. what should i do?How do you change for someone your in love with?Well my first thought is dont change yourself for anyone! But since these are good changes instead of him telling you to lose weight or something i would say do it.. How long have you been together? Maybe if you open up to him about what makes you do these things then he can help to figure out how to help you stop doing them.. I am sort of the same way.. If I get mad at my bf i just dont say anything and i bottle it inside for awhile then i will just go off.. Its very unhealthy, because if you want him to know how you feel, you have to tell him.. Plus, going off on people makes you look stupid and immature.. Have you ever witnessed a girl going off?? I have a few times, it makes me so mad because they are just embarassing themselves, thats why i dont do it as often.. lol I regret it later... But no one can really tell you how to change, you have to do it yourself.. So talk to someone and get it all out in the open and maybe you will feel better and realize that its ok to open up... Good luck :)
How do you change for someone your in love with?
He WANTS you to change? Don't.
How do you change for someone your in love with?
If he loved you he wouldn't want you to change yourself for him, be yourself!
dont change for no guy girl thats my best advice. if he doesnt like you for who you are dump his sorry a**
thats what makes you, you.

you should never change for a guy...

and if he really cared for you the way you care for him, he wouldnt ask you to change!

find someone who really appreciates you for who you are!
welll if u love him enough u will forget the past he just wants u to be happy and the way it sounds it aint that great just think if his that important to you .u will change ur ways i aint saying that u will change from just one day it will take time and he should support u while ur changing
easy you dont change for them.....you change for you. A change like this isnt for him its for you but he is right to ask this because how can he be happy with someone who isnt happy. I'm the same way though so i understand, and its not easy to change these things but im sure itll be worth it in the end. im in the same boat though.