if i have a fallout with someone or a parent, do i have to fully explain myself or do i just leave everything to God. Sometimes, im partly at fault i know that, but most of the time im misunderstood. do i have to bring justice by myself or leave it to God? my whole family think i have attitude problems. my sibling treats me like im a child explaining how much our parents love us blah blah. i know all that im not a kid, i know what theyve done to show theyre love. my parents always ask me to 'change your attitude'.everytime i try to change my 'attitude' i get critized you know? like as if they dont expect me to change.Do i have to explain myself or just leave it all to God?I am misunderstood a lot too. I explain myself as best as I can then leave the rest to God. Your actions speak louder than any words you say. Be a shining example to everyone around you as God has commanded and things will work out. As far as the attitude, I was accused of that many times. You may not realize how bad your getting but other people will. Being frustrated about being misunderstood won't help either. Just relax and do your best at everything you try and leave the rest to God.Do i have to explain myself or just leave it all to God?Don't 'leave it to God.' He's not going to improve your relationships when you leave things undone by not explaining yourself. He also won't explain to your loved ones what you're thinking or answer their questions about you. Communication would go a long way towards them not thinking you have an attitude problem I bet. Stop the magical thinking and step up and take responsibility for yourself.Do i have to explain myself or just leave it all to God?First of all you might want to leave as little as possible to God. I would think he has enough to do.
You should be responsible for your own actions and why you do the things you do.
It sounds to me like you have something harboring inside that you need to talk about. Maybe you feel justified in doing wrong to those who you feel deserve it.
If you really believe in God then you might want to be nice and forgiving to every one and not be so judgmental.
