If I constantly tell myself to become happy because even though external factors are making me sad, I can control my own happiness, will it work?How do you change your attitude?%26quot;Controlling your own happiness%26quot; is really just a metaphor... there's no magical, instant %26quot;fix%26quot; to human emotion. How you feel at any given time, however, has no bearing on how you choose to handle it. There are some things about ourselves we can't change- not easily, anyway. You may not always be able to control your emotions, but your attitude- how you handle those emotions- is entirely up to you.
You can consciously choose to have a positive attitude on the outside- regardless of what life throws at you, and regardless of how it makes you feel on the inside.
If you make that choice and stick to it, you may find it makes everything else a little easier to deal with. You may even find it a little easier to be genuinely happy inside and out... in time, that is. I'm still working on that one, myself. :)How do you change your attitude?Those external factors that make you sad are a result of forces in opposition to what you want in life, but that doesn't mean that you don't have the power to apply your own force to change those factors.
I don't find peace in ignoring whats wrong, I find peace in applying my own forces to change my surroundings.
Don't run from your life, chase your life down and make it your b*tch. You can do it.How do you change your attitude?Stop worrying about everything around you and worry about what makes you happy... Here is what I do... I take a %26quot;ME DAY%26quot; once a week. That one day helps me get through the rest... Should anything bad go wrong I just put my mind back on that day! Works like a charm... Don't ever pretend to be happy!!! BAD Idea!!!!!
