Well, I love my girlfriend of 3 and half years now but she recently decided she wanted a %26quot;break%26quot;. I love her and she loves me very much, we haven't cheated on each other and remain very honest to each other for the most part. We both have our own issues yes, I get jealous that she interacts with her guy friends from high school such as %26quot;i love ya%26quot; or %26quot;miss ya%26quot; or %26quot;hi bebe%26quot; when she wasn't like that during high school...we're both in college now(2nd yr). It's not that i don't want her to keep in touch, but i just don't like how she started very loving towards them...and there have been occasions that one of her friends told her he liked her... i don't like that guy anymore since then, but she still defends him, and not just him...all her friends....and same for another guy who was after her, she defended him all the time when we both knew he was after her...now we know he is a stalked b/c things were getting out of control...well, thats my issue, I get jealous..but when this relationship started I wasn't at all...Her issue is that she gets mad at everything and has an attitude that even her main family notice....they even tell her...%26quot;if you don't change your attitude your boyfriend will dump you and get another girlfriend%26quot;....I told her i wouldn't never break up because of the attitude....anywho, i tell her that i get jealous because partially is me, but it's also how she interarct with her friends and lets them inteact a certain way...%26quot;thats the way they are%26quot; she always says.
Well now she wants a %26quot;break%26quot; ....when we don't talk but we are still %26quot;together%26quot;..which after a week of being a break i called her and found out more about why she needed time...she said...that she pretty much wanted to enjoy her summer without having to worry about me getting upset about her friends...she says that bc i get upset, i am controlling her.When I never tell her to do or not to do anything....
She wants this break to last as long as summer lasts which is one month and a half...and then she wants to start over...
I don't mind that she needs time for herself, but when i found out she wanted to enjoy her summer without having to worry about me, thats just telling me....%26quot; I'm going to put you aside for the summer and start or pick up where we left off....in the mean while, I wait....I love her and she loves me...I know she does because she tells me that all the time....But if she loves me, why is she putting me aside for the summer?
Do i give her the space she wants by not communicating with her but remain together? Or should I break up with her and let her enjoy the summer?
Please help with any advise, I care about this girl so much.
Thank you for your time..
I tried to break up with her twice this week b/c this break is too much for me....I tell her we have to break up...but she says she doesnt want to break up...she wants to be with me but just wants time.
I dont want to be with anyone else and she sais the same thing tooI need advice on this please?Hey hun, I'm not taking sides, but any human being would be jealous unless they didn't care. U have every right to be jealous, but that doesn't give u the right to have control. Like u said u love her, she asked for time,give it to her. She wants to enjoy her summer and so should u don't sit around whining and wishing she was there. Go out have fun, meet a few ppl, im not telling u fall in-love. but meeting different girls can also help u realize if its worth breaking up or holding on. U say ur both honest and open with each other, so don't worry so much. HAVE FUN!! when she comes back u have to let go of so much space the two of u have, b/c u will be committed again. U don't want to be one of those guy who regrets loosing something so precious, b/c they made one mistake that messed up everything, If u feel shes not appreciating u, then that ur que to LET GO!!I need advice on this please?I did not even have to read past the second paragraph to see whats going on and your not going to like it .women do not take breaks just like guys don't.it is something someone says when they are in a sensative situation first she still want to have a relationship with you ae friend second the only reason she chose those words was to not hurt you she knew if she said break up you would be hurt and wont want to stay friends.in saying that no girl really wants to stay friends with an ex unless he has something she needs or wants.either way i would not give her the satisfaction i would call her up and say the break gave you a chance to think and you don't really fill the relationship is going to work.not just the things i said but she is cheating on you she will say it was a legal cheat cause you were on a break believe me had this type of **** happen before.dump the manipulator and fiend yourself someone worth while.I need advice on this please?Maybe she's angry because she feels you're jealous of her male friends.Girls don't like guys who get jealousShe cares about you, and she doesn't want you to be upset. That's why she wants a break from you for a little while. I don't think you should break up with her, wait until the break is over and see what happens then :) %26quot;If you love someone, let them go..and if they love you, they'll come back.%26quot;she's clearly hurting you
and she must realise that
sometimes even tho you love someone it just cant work out
this sounds like an unbalanced relationship to me?
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